Couples are pretty much the worst thing ever to some one like me. I hate to categorize myself like that, but to be frank, I definitely fit perfectly in the way-single category. And what's worst then couples is people who are technically single, but have "some one" in their lives. Seriously... if that some one really cared that much about you, they would make you your significant other.
What the hell do I know about this topic? Well I've been on and off with some one for years... 6 to be exact. And let the record show, that we have been OFF way longer then we've ever been on. There are days like today where I wonder why the heck I even put myself through all of this. I am very much single, but at the same time I have that "one" person in my life. I have some one to call when I want to go see a really masculine movie, or when I just want to cuddle and not have to make an effort. He is 100% my comfort blanket. I fully understand why people think it's okay to just have some one in our lives, who we actually aren't in love with. Not to lesser this guy, because I do love him, I'm just not in love with him.
I'm getting off topic... My point is. Why can't we just ditch our safety blankets and actually go for what we want. Screw tip toeing around each other and doing what we think the other person wants from us. Let's just go for what want, or face the reality that sometimes it is better to be alone then to fake being with some one. And if you do really care about the person you're with but not really with, then why not just tell them how you really feel.
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